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Howdy, and Welcome!

Y'all come on in and sit a spell. I've got stories to tell.

This is a photo of me, Paul Timmy.

This is me, Paul Timmy.

Hi! I'm Paul Timmy, aka Paul T Oyler, aka Thadeus. (Look for the explanation of the Thadeus moniker in a post soon.) Anyone who has known me well for any length of time will confirm that I can be a bit of a loner. At a party, I'd much rather find a quiet corner, listen to music and observe life around me. I am much more comfortable in my own little world. That is kind of what I am going to do with this blog (actually it is going to be more of a journal), EXCEPT, I am leaving the door open so you can join me, or at least peek in and see what is going on inside my head. (Warning - I'm sometimes scared of what is going on inside there!)

If you are still with me, come on along to read the whole scoop about me, the title of this journal, and the purpose of it.

Howdy, and Welcome!

Y'all come on in and sit a spell; I've got stories to tell.

Hi! I'm Paul Timmy, aka Paul T Oyler, aka Thadeus. (Look for the explanation of the Thadeus moniker in a post soon.)

This is a photo of me, Paul Timmy.

This is me, Paul Timmy.

Anyone who has known me well for any length of time will confirm that I can be a bit of a loner. At a party, I'd much rather find a quiet corner, listen to music and observe life around me.

I am much more comfortable in my own little world. That is kind of what I am going to do with this blog (actually it is going to be more of a journal), EXCEPT, I am leaving the door open so you can join me, or at least peek in and see what is going on inside my head. (Warning - I'm sometimes scared of what is going on inside there!)

If you are still with me, come on along to read the whole scoop about me, the title of this journal, and the purpose of it.

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Another Update on My Battle With Weight

It has been a month since my last update on my battle with weight, and unfortunately the past month has not been good. It would be easy to not write anything, but I promised to write updates, and this is as much for myself, to keep accountable to anyone who does read this. Between the…

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The Story of My Come To Jesus Night

By late 1982, my life was pretty messed up. I had lost the good-paying job I had had since I was 16. I was working flea markets, selling everything I had that was worth anything, and whatever money I did make, I was spending on low-quality weed, cheap beer (think plain white generic can, “Beer”),…

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An Overdue Update On My Weight Loss Journey

I know it has been almost a month since my last post, which was about my life-long weight problem. I apologize for not writing anything since. I intend to write at least one post a week, and hopefully two per week. I’d like to do one post a week that will include an update on…

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The Story of my Struggle with Weight and Weight Loss

I have a serious weight problem. I have struggled with it for most of my life, but I’ve usually thought something like, “I’ll deal with it, eventually.” Or, “That’s just the way God made me, so I’m good with that.” But I have to admit it – I am morbidly obese. If I don’t do…

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How That One Night Changed the 70s For Me

I wrote two weeks ago about The Day That Changed Everything. That was the day my Dad was killed in a truck accident. In that post, I wrote about the events of that evening and the horrible day after my 13th birthday. I know I have more stories to tell about that day and its…

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Recent Posts

Another Update on My Battle With Weight

It has been a month since my last update on my battle with weight, and unfortunately the past month has not been good. It would be easy to not write anything, but I promised to write updates, and this is as much for myself, to keep accountable to anyone who does read this. Between the weather and my back, I haven't done any consistent walking, and I haven't used the bike in my office more ...
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The Story of My Come To Jesus Night

By late 1982, my life was pretty messed up. I had lost the good-paying job I had had since I was 16. I was working flea markets, selling everything I had that was worth anything, and whatever money I did make, I was spending on low-quality weed, cheap beer (think plain white generic can, "Beer"), speed (amphetamines), and acid (LSD). Many of the 'friends' that I had associated with for the past few years had ...
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An Overdue Update On My Weight Loss Journey

I know it has been almost a month since my last post, which was about my life-long weight problem. I apologize for not writing anything since. I intend to write at least one post a week, and hopefully two per week. I'd like to do one post a week that will include an update on my weight journey, as well as other things that may be going on in my life currently. The second post ...
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The Story of my Struggle with Weight and Weight Loss

I have a serious weight problem. I have struggled with it for most of my life, but I've usually thought something like, "I'll deal with it, eventually." Or, "That's just the way God made me, so I'm good with that." But I have to admit it - I am morbidly obese. If I don't do something it will kill me. God did NOT make me morbidly obese, my choices of what to eat and what ...
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How That One Night Changed the 70s For Me

I wrote two weeks ago about The Day That Changed Everything. That was the day my Dad was killed in a truck accident. In that post, I wrote about the events of that evening and the horrible day after my 13th birthday. I know I have more stories to tell about that day and its impact on me, but this is my story of how, for me, the whole decade of the 70s was changed ...
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